The story of sex Paul Grimmond

Hi Paul!

I just wonder whether or not the attitude of society to sex has really changed at all. Perhaps it became easier to “get away with” having sex and it became something done more openly…but has anything actually changed in the time frames you mention?

I read a great book called “Sexual Ethics” by Stanley Grenz, and am preparing a sermon series on Song of Songs at the moment so I have been putting some thought into the ‘sex thing’. I love Grenz’s definition of eros, “the desire to possess and to be possessed”. I think that a secular view of sex distorts this desire.

For example, the man who is commitment shy might have a desire to possess, but does not seek to be possessed.

Dave

As you say, the 60s brought a change in sexual attitude and behaviour, and even though much of these changes were negative - promiscuity, lack of commitment etc. - my question is: did the “sexual revoltion” have any good side effects for the world?

I heard Peter Jensen asked this on Richard Glover’s show once and from memory he said: yes, there were some positives. I was shocked at the time. But I think one of his reasons was that sex was no longer such a taboo topic.

Paul Grimmond14/08/2009 04:26 AM

Hi Dave,

Just keen to understand you more clearly. Do you mean that it hasn’t changed in that it was always leanient but it was just that nobody owned up to it? Or are you saying that we are really still quite conservative? Or is there another option all together?

Thanks,
Grimmo.

I guess where I was coming from is that the human heart has not changed in how sexually perverted it can be (e.g. Romans 1). I do believe there are variations in what society will admit to accepting. So yes, always lenient but not owned up to.

It is interesting how tv censorship is more strict now than in the ‘70s, but people have greater access to porn thanks to the internet. A sad and confused world! smile

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